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Silence & Noise shorts, vintage blouse, london fog bag, forever 21 shoes
Outfit: I finally found the (almost) perfect shorts! The only complaint is that it's a wee-bit too short when it starts riding up, which shows the part of my thighs that I'm highly conscious about (see below paragraph). The vintage blouse was part of the two pieces of clothing I bought with my Moderepublic trendsetters gift certificate a while back. Due to a mailing address mix-up I just received it. Even though I didn't think it was a big deal, Lily from LoveCharles was SUPER sweet to include an extra Bill Blass blouse for the package's late arrival. Thanks Lily! 
Personal: Last night, our plans to make it back to San Saba fell through so Tim and I went on our (now weekly) routine: go thrifting at Savers and then go pig out at Chili's. I can't think of a better way to spend the day with my favorite guy (other than my little brother, of course!) in the world. Thrifting always makes me feel better after a long stressed-out week. Other than the modeling rehearsal today, I'm going to be extremely domestic and finally clean my apartment. :)
Fashion vs. Body Image: I know many people have commented on how short the skirts/dresses are on my blog; please realize that 1. the angle at which the shots are done (from ground up) make the skirts appear shorter and 2. it's really not my fault that I can't seem to find mini skirts that are slightly longer due to my height(5'10") at an affordable price (f21/UO/topshop/asos), feel insanely self-conscious about how knee-length makes my calves look bigger, and never find maxi styles that are actually "maxi" on me. Me being curvy makes the dresses/skirts even shorter than on a slim person my height. Of course, I could technically learn to sew better and add hems or just learn to wear pants but I've always loved to be girly and I really don't have time to alter every single piece. When it comes to body image, I  have a huge insecurity issue about my legs. My parents have always told me that my legs are too stubby/muscular for shorts and miniskirts (Asian parents...) and an ex boyfriend always relished in telling me how my legs are so muscular and that he prefers slender long legs. Of course, I'm a girl so obviously I'm going to harp on the most insignificant thing ever (calves! thighs!). Over the years I've tried to fight that insecurity about my legs by ignoring my parents and wearing lots of shorts and miniskirts and finally have sort of come to terms with my legs. I can't say I no longer complain about my thighs/calves or that I don't feel self conscious in the changing rooms. I do however now have a bf that loves my legs and a collection of short skirts that expose my "muscular" legs. Sorry for the long rant, I just feel like no one ever talks about their body image insecurities on fashion blogs due to how personal it is. However, that part of my psyche is definitely present when I play with clothes or look at myself in the mirror so I feel like I had to share. I've enjoyed reading your comments on the previous post about love/hate relationships with blogs, so I thought I'll ask: is there a specific body part you're more self-conscious or insecure about? 
PS. I KEEP forgetting to link to this AWESOME interview Gabrielle did on me. Read it HERE.
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she's got flare

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outfit 1: f21 top, thrifted belt, DIY skirt, Jeffrey Campbell shoes c/o Modcloth, etsy handmade earrings
outfit 2: Dangerous Toys top from Jason Mcmaster to Tim, f21 skirt/necklaces, Jeffrey Campbell shoes c/o Modcloth
ph. 8: Fashionably Connected mixer, ph. 9: purchasing cupcakes at Central Market during Fashion Lunch.
Outfit: These shoes are totally the perfect summer shoes for showing off my pedicures (still working on not biting fingernails so didn't get to do manicures as well). I used to have this insane worry that gladiator-type shoes made my legs stubbier than the classic pump but I think I've finally got over that irrational thought... so bring on the adventurous shoes! The t-shirt is seriously one of Tim's (bf) favorite shirt; it's so threadbare and soft. Not only is Dangerous Toys one of his all time favorite metal bands, the band's lead singer (and his good friend) gave this shirt to him. As you can imagine, I was highly surprised he even let me wear this shirt for a photoshoot, much less for a whole day to class/lab. I definitely pulled out the labcoat when I was working with bleach (which I don't even do for some of my favorite items out of laziness) in research. Thanks Tim! Some of you guys asked about a tutorial on the skirt. I tried to type one out and it got to be so confusing that I just decided to link you guys to THIS. Their directions are much more well-written than mine was. The only difference is I used brocade to make the skirt look dressier and I tend to belt mine in various ways. I'll be making another one in satin or silk (I'm thinking in a champagne gold color) very soon so I might post pictures of my progress!
Personal: I'm still alive...although I'm barely surviving under the massive pressure of balancing classes, research (Dr. Georgiou, for those who asked), fashion mixers/lunches, modeling rehearsals, and a whole bunch of other personal stuff. I also got a DOMAIN! Now it's http://www.diyainherstilettos.com/ so update your blog links/readers! For the google reader/friend connect it should automatically transfer subscriptions seamlessly from blogspot to the private domain. Does anyone know if bloglovin' will also automatically transfer? I suck at all social-media-related operations. As you can tell from the pictures, I've been unable to keep myself away from sweets lately. So bad for me but so good for the soul! One final note: the best thing about this blog has been the friends & advice-givers I've met through it. I truly love each and every friend I've made these past few months, either through the internet or through Austin fashion blogger meetups. It's amazing how much I have this love/hate relationship with my blog! I hate it on days when I feel ugly or can't find anything that looks good on me (in my head) so I can't update it...and I love it on the days when I am reminded of how sweet some fellow bloggers are. Do any of you guys have love/hate relationship with YOUR blog?
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floral dresses & bday photolog pt. 2

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(old) asos dress, thrifted snakeskin belt, thrifted via spiga shoes, london fog purse, forever 21 necklace
First group photo(L-R) Tamanna, Esosa, Joyce, Rose, me, Anslee, Vinh, Laura (unseen: my bf and Tamanna's bf)
Outfit: This is what I wore to my shopping trip yesterday; a little breezy dress (I always wear things that are easy to change in and out of when shopping for clothes) and some summery sandals. This belt was thrifted last weekend along with 3 other quality leather belts but it's by far my favorite due the buckle having a hidden "back hook" instead of the usual women's "front hook" (no clue what the technical term is?). The necklace from forever 21 was purchased yesterday and I promptly put it on (does anyone else immediate wear something upon purchasing?) when walking out the store...I love the woven suede/rhinestone/chain detailing so much! Forever 21 is the best for cheap cute jewelry and sunglasses. I often do modify my necklaces from there by layering them, twisting a couple necklaces together, removing cheesy fabric flower brooches or stupid lockets/hearts/etc from them. As for these shoes, I STILL can't believe I had such good luck in thrifting them. So perfect.
Birthday: After having to go to class and research all day, I barely had about 1 hr to change into something "old hollywood glamor" and to post the first set of bday pictures. I ended up wearing the dress from this post since I figured my birthday was totally an excuse to overdress.  After hurrying to the Cheesecake Factory (an old standby now for my birthday) I got to chat and pig out on cheesecake (my choice: chocolate tuxedo) and pasta with some awesome people. Due to my procrastination in sending out invites and actually planning this event, a couple people couldn't make it for various trips and reasons but this way we got to sit in one cozy round booth instead of having a couple tables shoved together. I would have more pictures of the dinner but I'm too lazy to resize and upload to flickr...plus I figure that not everyone wants to see 10000 pics of my bday dinner ;). I'll be lazying around for the rest of today by having a burger (mmm), going to The Domain and then possibly Goodwill, and picking up some more red velvet cupcakes for the bf since he greatly enjoyed the ones I bought on Thursday.  PS. Thank you all for the birthday wishes! I'm now 22 ;) 
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Birthday Photo Diary

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outfit one: replica production of vintage 1920's dress. GROUP and ME+ CUPCAKE PICS C/O GRECHEN.
outfit two: f21 dress, thrifted belt, overstock.com purse, bakers shoes
Heading out the door to Cheesecake Factory for some further celebrations (I'm late!!) but here's some snapshots from yesterday and today. These photos are in chronological order (fashion lunch, cupcake chowdown, bleetup, today's outfit). Those cupcakes from Sugarmama's were DELICIOUS. Also, TOTALLY funny fashion people group photos at the BLEETUP (bloggers meetup) yesterday held at Trio's of Four Seasons Hotel. Lol at Indiana's and Anslee's (both in back row) "burger faces" hehe. I didn't get the memo that it's supposed to be a crazy picture until after the photos were taken... *sighs* always one step behind everyone else. Anyway, shots of freshly made coffee and miniature burgers, fries and other finger food were served. Thanks Amy for bringing me a gigantic chocolate cupcake at the fashion lunch as well... and Anslee singing happy bday to me like 12 times during lunch... and Indiana for "bringing me a baby" for my birthday present
PS. Tim was very very happy about the red velvet cupcakes and we're going back for more (his fave)!
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The winner for the Fleur de Lis Ring is...

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CONGRATS TO JULES1219!! Your contact info will be given to DesignerApparel.com right now. If you don't hear from them please email me!
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Giveaway: Win clothes from Alainn Bella!

1. Paris Lace Tank
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2. Two-toned Jersey Mini Dress
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3. Button-Down Dress
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4. Modal Silk Pullover Hoodie
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Win one of the four items shown above courtesy of  Alainn Bella! Alainn Bella is an online boutique newly opened out of New York and stocks the cutest summer dresses, rompers, and drapey tanks.
RULES:
1. Must be either a follower on google friend connect, twitter or facebook (specify which one).
2. Comment and pick one item from above and "Like" Alainn Bella on Facebook for one entry
3. Comment again if you signed up for the Alainn Bella newsletter for an additional entry.
 4. Leave an email and/or a blog link for me to contact you with if you're the winner!!!!
5. Of course, tell me which piece (1-4) you'll like to win!
6. ENDS Wednesday July 29th.
WINNER: YASMINE BUTTONS.
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they've got nothing on you

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vintage blouse, f21 skirt, asos clutch, colin stuart pumps, modified f21 necklace
It's late and I've got class early in the morning so I'm not going to write much tonight. This is what I wore yesterday to the Austin City Wide Garage Sale and also later that day to the fashion show rehearsal. I'm modeling for my designer friend Laisa in a show coming up in August; more details soon but it's going to be pretty awesome so if you're in Austin and free on August 14th in the evening, please mark your calendars. I also ended up wearing this again to a chinese buffet after deciding my belted outfit wasn't going to cut it for a pig out session...will post that outfit later. The lighting in these photos are gorgeous and finally does justice to this blouse that I've been wearing to death lately. I'm totally obsessed with vintage lace things ... especially lace blouses. I love how the blouse softens up the leather skirt and makes it more feminine. The skirt was a new find in the f21 clearance section; forgotten and unloved because leather's kind of too cheesy avant-garde for the ATX so everything leather always gets marked down to under $10. I'm always up for leather even though I've got a bazillion pieces of them since no matter if they're on trend for fashion, they'll always be perfect for rock/metal concerts. I scored BIG at thrifting today; someone donated all of their italian/snake/urugray leather belts to the store and I picked all of them up! Perfect since I got rid of so many f21 belts I've accumulated over the years a few weeks back. You've probably noticed I wear belted silhouettes all the time so these will definitely be in heavy rotation. It's a good thing that Tim loves thrift stores as well for the electronics section (geek!) so I'm getting back into thrifting more again. Poo on previous bf that was too snooty for thrift stores and wore only designer jeans + ralph lauren polos (nothing wrong with that, just not me).
Oops. I guess I wrote too much again, heh I'm a talkative one eh?
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in shades and hues

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thrifted new york & co. dress, asos blazer, presa bag via overstock.com, forever 21 shoes, vintage necklace as bracelet, forever 21 earrings
Outfit details: This new purse is actually a gigantic tote bag, a much-needed upgrade from my beaten, 3-yr-old UT bookstore canvas tote for carrying my textbooks/research notebooks around campus (carrying a tote + purse = hassle). However, for the sake of the pictures I experimented with carrying it as a fold-over clutch... it worked better than hoped and I might add a buckle or some other sort of fastener to make the tote convertible. Teal/turquoise is actually my favorite color (which is why a lot of my usernames are "turquoisepassion"...ex: chictopia). The reason I don't own that many pieces of clothing that are in this color is because I've become quite picky about the exact shade; it can't be too blue, too light, too bright, etc. Thus I was a bit nervous about ordering this bag online buuuut now I'm totally glad I took the dive! I've been so good lately and haven't shopped anywhere but thrift/f21 but I still felt guilty for getting something that's almost $100. The price was way too much for my budget but I saw it on other sites for over $300 and I really needed a stylish tote bag for school and traveling...well I guess not NEED but that beaten UT bag was getting ridiculously dirty and hard to launder.
Most played on ipod this week (someone asked again via email so now I'm going to make it regular): "Hate Worldwide" -Slayer (thrash metal), "Break the Spell"- Broken Teeth (classic rock),  "Airplanes"- B.o.B. (R&B/Rap), "Dirty Little Girl" (modern rock), "My Little Hell"- Underride (modern rock), "The Ghost Inside" - Broken Bells (indie), "Made For You" -OneRepublic (pop/alternative). Anyone have good music suggestions? I haven't heard much pop, rap, syn-pop or electronica that's impressed me lately. I keep playing the same 20 songs over and over the past week or so. RANDOM: I saw a Pentagram tshirt and it totally made me think of Hal since it's her husband's band. Wrong shirt size :( 
Personal update: I got to sit down with Tamanna of French Leaving last night over some avocado+cheese enchiladas and talked about blogging, my obscenely massive collection of indian music  (350+ bollywood songs, 70+ bhangra songs, 30+ indian pop songs...),  food/cooking, and future career plans. Today, I somehow got "negative" amounts of DNA in my sample according to the nanodrop machine (well, within the margin of error, I actually got ZERO but it was funny disheartening to see that I somehow managed to produce a "negative" amount after 12 hrs of hard work). I also finally tried Five Guys Burgers for dinner with Tim. Seeing how I've been to over 30 and counting places in Austin for burgers, it was weird I still haven't been to a burger joint not even a mile away from my apartment. Anyway, for local Austin burger fans: go try it if you love burgers, but don't get more than one serving of fries unless you have over 3 people. I got about 4-5 measuring cups full of french fries with my burger; seriously one of the rare times I didn't finish my fries! So all in all, it was a perfectly stereotypical college day... research failure with a gigantic side of fries. What else is new around here?
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we're golden

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outfit 1: vintage blouses via etsy, lulu's shorts, belt/necklace via etsy, thrifted shoes
outfit 2: custom-made dress via etsy, bakers shoes, modified f21 necklace
fashion lunch photos courtesy of Sandhya : (L-R) Grechen (NewtoATX, Grechen's Closet, Grechen Blogs, Free!Grechen, etc.), Megan (SewSister), Michelle (Wicked Whimsy), Sandhya (Livin' Wide), Amy (Pixie Space), ew, Joanna (Keep Austin Stylish), Anslee (Savannah Red Designs)
Today: Met a lot of awesome ladies today at our weekly fashion bloggers/designers meetup... I'm totally embarrassed about how ill-dressed I am in these pictures but I had to throw something on as I'm heading out the door and pack a clutter of heels/jewelry into my tote. I had to make it to research to check on bacteria colonies before my 10AM class, and I was TOTALLY late. Anyway, I'm that lumbering giant amongst the beautifuls today... give you guys an idea of my height (thus why skirts/dresses are always too short on me... it's not completely my fault!). I congratulated myself on skipping out on research team's free pizza then gorged on some dark chocolate/hazelnut gelato after a gigantic dish of cheesy pasta.
Outfits: Both outfits are from this weekend. the dress is really old from when I used to wear more colors, pulled out from behind the closet on a particularly sweltering day and worn with sandals. I need to wear a lot of pieces much more often...
Playlist: One particular email asked what I'm listening to right this moment. As always, it's a mish-mash of genres, from Slayer's "Hate Worldwide"/ Shadow's Fall's "The Taste of Fear" to Underride's "Riot Stick" to Burn Halo's "Dirty Little Girl"  to OneRepublic's "All the Right Places" to B.O.B.'s "Airplanes" to all of  Postal Service's EP stuff.
In other news: I will be having a small birthday gathering with some fashion bloggers/peeps at the Cheesecake Factory around my birthday, July 22nd (mostly likely July 23rd in the evening, around 7PM). We will be dressed in old hollywood glam and pig out on cheesecake. I'm a procrastinator in planning so I STILL haven't planned it out enough to send out the official email yet... if you're in Austin and you're interested in coming out to chat, feel free to EMAIL me for details!
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